Thursday, January 11, 2007

什麼樣的男朋友值得繼續交往 - for girls!

I saw this in my OLD emails, thought it's a good reminder.

 

1.他不屬於妳十份喜歡的類型,但是他追妳追得很有誠意。而且妳喜歡的類型,交往再多都是失敗的例子。

-God gives you what you need, not necessarily always what you want - friends told me. He knows the best! But..... girls gotta have fondness... otherwise, no way Jose! ^^

2.妳有經前症候群,但每次他都有辦法熬過妳的經期風暴,繼續陪伴在妳身邊。

3.你們雖然已經沒有戀愛的感受,但是他確實比妳的老闆照顧你,或比妳的父母更關心妳,他永遠在妳苦惱時,站在妳這邊。

-EXACTLY!

4.他沒有妳前任男友的優點,但是他也沒有妳前任男友的缺點,而且他有的優點,很多人都沒有。

-Um.... I guess it's hard not to compare.

5.他有令你仰慕的才華,雖然他不是很懂得照顧妳,但是也不會傷害你,而且妳認為他的才華帶給妳無窮的樂趣。

-His talents gotta be somewhat relate to eternal values! but gotta know how to take care GIRLS! =)


6.妳對他很挑剔,但是他卻能夠贏得妳朋友、家人甚至上司的欣賞。(特別是那種很看重妳,很怕妳戀愛後怠惰的老闆)

7.他對你要求很多,但是都很合情合理,而且這些要求對妳有好無壞。

-Be nice... I would be glad to listen.

8.他很黏,可是很甜。他很不黏,可是很忠誠。他有點黏但不是很黏,他很體貼地在觀察妳的需要

-This one I'm not sure what to comment yet. ^^"

This is the year of Lord's favor on all of us!

I receive Your blessings.

6 comments:

  1. Let me adjust something..
    1 is not really true, in my thoughts about most guys.
    2~6 are okay.
    7 depends.. usually we want guys to have "wide heart.", not "sisy". Even he's sincere, you would get tired eventually if he has no bottom line.
    8 他很黏,可是很甜 <-- you better make sure if he has good mental health (ex:background), or muture enough.
    他很不黏,可是很忠誠 <-- this is pretty ideal.

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  2. hehe.. Josh you replied!
    well, after I read again, #8: 他很黏,可是很甜 doesn't sound too right....
    #1: well.... I guess I'm reading it from a girl's point of view, at least to me, if I don't like that guy, there's NO 2nd chance whatsoever! and even if I think the guy is fine, but not my 'favorite', I tend to exclude right away 2. Christian, married friends had told me - God gives you what you need, not always what you want THE MOST. I've pondered about this for a while, long to a point I only have one conclusion: I honor His work, and all I can do in the meantime is... PRAY!

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  3. 哪 有沒有 給男生看的文章 :P

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  4. um.. 我現在這裡沒有耶, 不過如果我有的話, 一定會寄給你看得! You can check out an entry from Jack's blog - 有一個是說男生的, if I remember it correctly! ^^

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  5. my god!
    Is this about my bf because he fits all of theM!!!

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  6. k316: wow, I guess I need to see your bf ~ hehe

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